SIMPLE LIFE
I am lost & found over and over…
Our Italian Life: It’s still raining here in Val Pellice, and we are seeing first hand the effect on the community. It’s as if an entire season has been missed and Spring just didn’t arrive. The days are long with no lack of sunshine, it gets dark around 10pm.
This morning I was woken by Mario’s herd of cows literally passing right by my window. What is it with men and the size of their ‘cowbells’…. Sam is out working with a friend of ours clearing wood for Winter and the kids are out in the borgata playing. The school year finishes next week and then the holidays start, our road will be filled with ‘city folk’ up for a day in the countryside.
Yesterday I walked down to Bobbio with Aldina to pick up her niece and nephew and meet the teachers (one speaks English phew) and was pleasantly surprised to see how well Luca will fit in here. We still don’t know which school Carina will attend and have a meeting on Monday to discuss it. She is picking up the language so quickly and the old people now look to her to translate to me LOL! I try to say everything in both Italian and English so Luca picks up some words.
Sam’s orto is growing nicely and we are bucking the system by not planting potatoes like everyone else. Reason being why grow such a cheap crop? Answer it’s always been that way! So we will swap our cherry tomatoes, cauliflower, aubergines, and beans for some potatoes hopefully if we can continue to outfox the snails!
Tomorrow morning our neighbors are coming for pancakes…they’ve never had them so we had to go and hunt down some maple syrup. They have been so generous and Sam has found a best friend to muck about with. He is in happy land, out in the ‘orto’, pottering about with Claudio or here at the house fixing the plumbing.
I have found a lady in Bobbio Pellice who is Canadian and we are meeting up for coffee with a friend of hers also from Australia. She and her husband are retired and here volunteering for two years. Having a social network of some kind makes all the difference when in a new country, especially one that speaks the same language. I must admit to being a bit down since not having the internet, I realize how much I relied on it for my socializing and connection to friends.
The Italian version of ‘facebook’ can be seen every day before or after meal times. Soaking up the sun in the town square. The elderly men on the comfortable park benches in the prime spot opposite the square where they can see the comings and goings. The women gather outside the Comune chatting face to face, people at the cafe, parents watching the children playing in the park, or tourists eating gelato.
It’s the Italian version of the Social Network and it’s scary that we have lost this in only a few generations. The people here are always ‘doing’ something, I can’t imagine them on computers or in front of the TV, from first light till dark (about 9pm) we can hear daily life going on about us.
The cows come home with bells ringing loudly ready for milking, the cars beep at the sharp curve on the road just above our house, Carina wants to go and help with the cows and it’s still light outside at 9pm with the kids all out playing. And I seem to have found the prime time for trying our internet connection….lunchtime of course when everyone is home eating a meal together!
Life has certainly changed….I am slowly shifting my focus and learning to enjoy each moment as it comes…yes even minus Facebook. x
and the gang x
I dont know whether I would be able to hold that metal ball around my neck like that!
What makes it worse Matt is that it’s a huge bell so not only do you get a neck ache but also a headache!! xx
We’ve done well by controlling some of the snail population in our yard by placing old cans or even plastic cups into the soil around the problem areas and filling them anywhere from 1/2 to 3/4 full with cheep beer! It seems the snails like a good party at night and in the morning you will find a lot of them floating in the beer.
I passed this onto our resident snail catcher Sam and unfortunately he’s started drinking the beer!! I prefer the Sambuca myself xxx
It is so amazing, Lisa. I know I have said it already–but you inspire me SO much! So few people lead an adventuresome life and yet that is what you are doing…Thank you again for a reminder to turn off the computer and turn into life!!
I often forget that we are living outside the box now it all just seems so natural for us to be here. I am falling in love with this valley and love the lifestyle, finally finding my feet and venturing out on my own. The computer is now back on and wonderful for staying touch with friends and family but now I’d rather be out in the borgata with the kids or messing about in the orto with Sam x Maybe we should all have a computer free month, what a challenge that would be x
Sounds like you are having a lot of great times in Italy – even without the internet.
Actually I would LOVE a week of no internet!!
And quality time exploring with family in a new area sounds ideal. You are all looking so happy – hope you are all settled in.
The sound of the community spirit sounds so good. I miss having coffee/cakes with friends and time with other adults 🙂
Yes life without the internet has it’s good and bad sides. It’s wonderful to be able to spend time with the family instead of being glued to fb and the blog. I do miss being able to just chat with people but I’m slowly picking up the language and have some english speaking friends here now. Hope all is well with the family I am finding it so difficult to keep up with everyone when the internet is so unreliable. xxx
Love how you describe village life there, Lisa. I do wish that people had more time for socializing here in my valley. Almost everyone leaves to drive 30 miles to work in town. Then, when they come home they are tired and hungry and just want to vege out in front of the TV. I hate what American life has become. And….I blame it all on the TELEVISION! No need to go out if one can be entertained in your comfy chair. And then with the internet and Facebook any little time left over is gone. I am (sometimes) guilty of that, too. I am seriously thinking about quitting our satellite TV connection.
Wonderful that you have made some friends there who can also communicate in English. And, Carina is already speaking a lot of Italian! Children learn another language very fast. I have seen that over and over in the school where I work.
The community spirit is strong here and everyone is out and about through the day. Only one man here has to leave to go to work which is nice because we always have people around. No TV here although we do have the internet so we can watch movies at night if we want. The local children don’t seem to watch TV and are always out doing something. Having friends this time that speak english has been wonderful and just knowing I can ring them for a chat when I want helps. Can’t wait till the kids are at school and getting some structure again, I am hopeless with home schooling and they have had a lot of freedom this year. sending love xxx
I love your descriptions of daily life. I think I love it so because what you describe sounds like something we read about in books now. As you said, we seem to have lost our socialization skills in but a generation or two. As we too are preparing for a life in Italy (2029 days and counting), we have started “practicing” living in Italy. One of the things we do is greet people as we pass them on the sidewalk. More often than not, the person first is surprised, then a big smile comes to their face and they respond in kind. Seems like we all miss that face-to-face time.
It does seem like a fiction novel here in the valley, I often have to remind myself just how incredible it is especially when visitors come for the first time. I think things are turning around and people are starting to get sick of living a ‘virtual’ life rather then getting out and meeting face to face. How wonderful and I know those countdowns and how quickly they go, wouldn’t it be nice if we all took the time to say hi and give someone a smile like you are doing. xxx
Here’s to Italy and your life here xxx
Such great portraits of all of you!!! Sam’s especially made me smile widely. What a fun life for your kids! They look happy. xxxxxxxxx
The great thing about Sam is he’s always willing to get in a photo lol x We are all enjoying a very simple life here and I’m even getting in the photo’s now and again xxx
I’m intrigued that simply changing countries can make such a dramatic shift in the way you’re choosing to live life Lisa. I have to say it’s very seductive. Tell Sam that’s a very impressive cow bell if every I’ve seen one haha x
It is such a huge change Margaret, one I didn’t expect and it’s forcing me to actually get out into LIfe and Live it rather than be hooked to the computer. It’s a real weaning process that I am just now noticing as I have been in the grumps without my fb and blog and taking it out on everyone here. Rather than appreciating the differences I’ve been happily sooking about them, NO more of that!! Now I’m getting on with my writing and shaking off the doldrums!
I’ll tell Sam about the cow bells, funny I hadn’t noticed the implications of this whopper!! LOL xxx sending lots of love and been enjoying your posts just can’t seem to comment or get the images until our net is a bit faster. xxx
Good to hear. It’s spring. You’re in Italy. You have a husband with a huge cow bell. You should be outside and enjoying it. Did I say that out loud! x
Naughty!! xxx
It all sounds so beautiful to me. A little slice of La Dolce Vita would be welcomed right now. Best of luck in your endeavors.
thanks so much Christina you are right it really is beautiful here and I fall more in love with this valley and her people each day x
Well, it looks and sounds magical. I am enjoying reading about your new life!
I often think the same thing Bronnie it really is magical here, ciao lisa xx
I found your blog yesterday and oh I so envy you, starting a life in Italy! It must be a wonderful experience and adventure. We just got home from a week’s holiday trip to northern Italy, and it was my second visit there… oh a sweet dream would be to own a little hideaway place there once!
Welcome Anna Mari, and yes the mountains of northern Italy are addictive. We lived here in Italy once before for two years when our children were very small. The house we are in now cost very little and our lifestyle is very simple so we find it possible to achieve our dream. Of course it is much easier with Sam being Italian lol xxx
keep following your dreams
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I admit I DO miss you and your posts, but whenever I miss you I smile to myself and think about how busy and happy and fulfilled you are. 🙂 It’s so good to hear about your life whenever you ARE able to get online. 🙂 XO
Krista many days I think of you and that photo of you in your gumboots and laugh now that I am also feeling so happy with so little. I feel as if I have been here forever and now having made some friends its even better. Today is my birthday and I’m so thankful that we chased our dream and found a new one here in the mountains of Piemonte. Hard to imagine life without cowbells, wild flowers, and this incredible valley and her people. sending love and hugs LIsa xxx
Love it and the memories you’re evoking of our brief time in Italy a couple of years ago. Enjoy, live life and let us know how its going when you can!!!
Thanks Annette and I’ll endeavor to get here more often, it seems to depend on the time of day and color underwear you’re wearing as to the speed of the net. It seems that Italy never leaves your heart once she’s touched it, I’m glad to be able to remind you xxx
love lisa
Loving your journey Lisa along with the images, life is good in the hills of Italy (less internet and more human contact), I’m all for it. xx
Oh Hi Millie, I’ve been reading your posts but just can’t seem to get a comment to work with this crazy internet connection. I usually can see the text but not the images even so I love being able to see what you are doing. Once we are sorted out with the net I’ll be able to have a lovely catch up with everyone!
Less internet hasn’t hurt and I love having time to read posts from Zen Habits which previously I would bookmark to be read another time (which I just didn’t get around to doing lol).
The social media seems to be screaming now that I can get on it briefly, so much calling out for attention, it all seems very loud. Perhaps I just need to ease myself back in slowly.
sending love x